“Seek out, with much care and thought, a teacher who will be a safe guide to you; one who knows well how to lead such as are journeying towards God; a teacher who is rich in virtues and wise in the Holy Scriptures.”
Saint Basil the Great
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“Just by keeping the word of one’s Spiritual Father one receives Grace from God.”
Saint Sophrony of Essex
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“Don’t hesitate [to come to Confession]. Don’t be ashamed. Whatever you may have done, even the greatest of sins, the Spiritual Father has power from the Lord Jesus Christ Himself and from the Apostles to forgive you with his Stole.”
Saint Iakovos of Evia
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“The Lord loves us so much that He suffered for us on the Cross; and His suffering was so great that we can’t comprehend it. In the same way our Spiritual Pastors suffer for us, although we often don’t see their suffering. The greater the love of the Pastor, the greater his suffering; and we, the Sheep, should understand this, and love and honour our Pastors”
Saint Silouan the Athonite
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“A wise man is one who accepts advice, especially that of a Spiritual Father counselling him in accordance with the Will of God.”
Saint Thalassios the Libyan
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“Only to the Priest God gave the right to hold the Sacrament of Confession and read the permissive Prayer. None of the Heavenly Forces is given this. And God allowed the Priest to be a sinner, for a sinful Priest would better understand a sinful man.”
Saint John Chrysostom
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“The world cannot comprehend how many people have been comforted through your Priestly Stole; how many thousands of Souls have been saved; how many have Communed the Pure Mysteries; how many have entered the Church through the Baptisms you have performed; how many received the Church’s Blessing through the Sacrament of Marriage…”
Archbishop Makarios of Australia
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“The Priesthood is a very great gift of God towards mankind. It is the conduit of the Grace of God.”
Elder Epiphanios of Athens
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“No safer path to Salvation can be found than to reveal ones own thoughts to the most discerning of the Fathers.”
Saint John Cassian
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“The Holy Spirit acts Mystically through the Spiritual Father, and then when you go out from your Spiritual Father, the Soul feels her renewal. But if you leave your Spiritual Father in a state of confusion, this means that you did not Confess purely and did not forgive your brother all of his sins from your heart.
Saint Silouan the Athonite
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“Tell everything to your Spiritual Father, and the Lord will have mercy on you and you will escape delusion. But if you think that you know more about the Spiritual life than your Spiritual Father, and you stop telling him everything about yourself in Confession, then you will immediately be allowed to fall into some sort of delusion, in order that you may be corrected.”
Saint Silouan the Athonite
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“If a man does not tell everything to his Spiritual Father, then his path is crooked and does not lead to the Kingdom of Heaven. But the path of one who tells everything leads directly to the Kingdom of Heaven.”
Saint Silouan the Athonite
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“Let us return to the Christ-Bearing Ascetics and to the Holy Fathers.”
Saint Justin Popovich
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“My heart only has entrances. It doesn’t have exits. Whoever enters remains there. Whatever he may do, I love him the same as I loved him when he first entered into my heart. I Pray for him and seek his Salvation.”
Elder Epiphanios of Athens
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“A Spiritual Father, like a signpost, merely indicates the way; but you yourself must follow the path.”
Saint Nikon of Optina
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“Come now my beloved son, if only for a day. We will speak with God and about God. Come and enjoy Him Whom you miss.”
Saint Joseph the Hesychast
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“Orthodox Priests share in Christ’s self-emptying, in the Martyric Priesthood of Christ, Who was Crucified and went down to Hades.”
Saint Sophrony of Essex
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“I suffer along with the person who is confessing. I feel pain along with him. I suffer and cry for him… I pray for the repentant; I am concerned about him and wait for him to come again.”
Saint Iakovos Tsalikis of Evia
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“Whoever possesses unclouded faith in his Spiritual Father will, on seeing him, think that he is seeing Christ Himself; when with him or following him, he will firmly believe that he is with and following Christ.”
Saint Symeon the New Theologian
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“There is no greater satisfaction for me than to remain for hours in the seat of the confessional and to reconcile man to God.”
Elder Epiphanios of Athens
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“When someone cannot rebut his thoughts, he should at least tell them to his Elder. Even then he will benefit.”
Saint Sophrony of Essex
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“Abba Pimen said something wonderful: ‘Stay close to a person who fears God and then you’ll have fear of God, as well.’ Who are they who really fear God? Those who are passionless, virtuous, saintly people who never cease to repent. How much we owe to such people when we encounter them, how much we owe to the fact that we’re with them and that, in some mysterious way they stimulate our heart to Pray.”
Elder Efraim of Vatopaidi
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“I will implore my Lord that He send down upon you the Grace of His Holy Spirit, the Spirit of Wisdom, faith, courage, and hope in Salvation. I believe that God will hear my Prayer, although it is weak, for He came down from Heaven to lead us there.”
Saint Gabriel of Seven Lakes
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“When we accept the Spiritual Father as a gift from God, or when gratitude and thankfulness to God for the Spiritual Father arise in Prayer, then we love him in the Spirit.”
Saint Sophrony of Essex
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“Let your [Spiritual] Father be the one who is able and willing to labour with you in bearing the burden of your sins.”
Saint John Climacus
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“If you see a man pure and humble, that is a great vision. For what is greater than such a vision, to see the invisible God in a visible man, the temple of God.”
Saint Pachomius the Great
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“If from one burning lamp someone lights another, then another from that one, and so on in succession, he has light continuously. In the same way, through the Apostles Ordaining their successors, and these successors Ordaining others, and so on, the Grace of the Holy Spirit is handed down through all generations and enlightens all who obey their shepherds and teachers.”
Saint Gregory Palamas
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“Consider that the Holy Spirit lives in the Spiritual Father, and He will tell you what to do…”
Saint Silouan the Athonite
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“When someone is completely obedient to his Elder, his heart opens up and he inherits the Elder’s ‘riches’ in a very short time… This means that, if the disciple receives a Grace from God during Prayer, his mind immediately turns to his Elder and he says that this happened by the Prayers of the Elder. This is Spiritual obedience and love for the Elder. Through this process, obedience to the Elder deadens the passions. This is the only way to deaden and transform the passions.”
Saint Sophrony of Essex
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“Everyone should come to an agreement with their Spiritual Father to have a small, Spiritual program, and by following this you can gain great Spiritual benefit. For example, to read certain things and to have a particular time for reading; to Pray, to keep vigil, to fast etc. And with this small Spiritual program God can give you even greater Blessings and gifts than those he gives to Monks.”
Saint Paisios the Athonite
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“A wise counsellor is a wall of hope.”
Saint Isaac the Syrian
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“A Monk came to his Spiritual Father and asked: ‘Father, how many times have I come to you, repented of my sins, how many times have you counseled me, but I can not improve myself? What good is it for me to come to you if after my conversations I again fall into my sins?’ His Elder answered: ‘My son, take two clay pots – one with honey and one empty.’ His Spiritual child did so. ‘And now’, said the Elder, ‘pour honey several times from one pot to another.’ The disciple again obeyed. ‘Now, son, look at the empty pot and smell it.’ The disciple looked, sniffed and said: ‘Father, the empty pot smell like honey, and there, on the bottom, there is a little thick honey.’ ‘That’s right’, said the Elder, ‘and my instructions settle in your Soul. If for Christ’s sake, you learn at least some of the Virtue in your life, then the Lord, through His Mercy, will fill the deficiency and save your Soul for a life in Paradise.'”
A Parable
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“Obedience is the burial of the will and the resurrection of humility.”
Saint John Klimakos
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“You yourself should also study the Divine writings – especially the works of the Fathers that deal with the practice of the virtues – so that you can compare the teachings of your master with them; for thus you will see and observe them as in a mirror.”
Saint Symeon the New Theologian
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“I am like the old tree in whose shade the meek sheep of Christ gather during the hot days of summer, and in whose branches the small birds gather. All ask that the old pine tree might live so that they have their joy. However, slowly, slowly its roots rot and the heavy winter will come, when a strong wind will knock him down and he will become wood for the fire. Now, however, the pine tree makes glad the sheep and birds that gather in the desert.”
Saint Amphilochios Makris of Patmos
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“The affection of the Spiritual Father is much higher than that of the carnal. For many times the carnal father can deliver you to hell, while the Spiritual Father will take you to Eternal Life.”
Saint Anthimos of Chios
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“When we do not reveal our thoughts and intentions and do not seek the counsel of the experienced, we hold on to our own will and follow our own justifications. Then, apparently doing something good, we spread nets for ourselves, and so without realizing it we perish. For how can we understand the Will of God or completely surrender ourselves to it, when we trust ourselves and cling to our own will? Therefore Abba Pimen said that “our will is a brass wall between man and God.”
Saint Dorotheos of Gaza
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“I am like the old tree in whose shade the meek sheep of Christ gather during the hot days of summer, and in whose branches the small birds gather. All ask that the old pine tree might live so that they have their joy. However, slowly, slowly its roots rot and the heavy winter will come, when a strong wind will knock him down and he will become wood for the fire. Now, however, the pine tree makes glad the sheep and birds that gather in the desert.”
Saint Amphilochios Makris of Patmos
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“Do not open your thoughts to everyone, but only to those who can heal your Soul.”
Saint Anthony the Great
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“Go away and cling to a man who feareth God, and by being near him you will learn from him to fear God.”
Saint Anthony the Great
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“Do you know what ‘Elder’ means? Only the devil knows what exactly an Elder means.”
Saint Ephraim of Katounakia
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“If a person earnestly seeks Salvation with his whole heart, God will lead him to a true instructor. Do not worry, each will find the one who is just right for him.”
Saint Leonid of Optina
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“Draw nigh to the righteous, and through them you will draw nigh to God. Communicate with those who possess humility, and you will learn morals from them. A man who follows one who loves God becomes rich in the Mysteries of God; but he who follows an unrighteous and proud man gets far away from God, and will be hated by his friends.”
Saint Isaac the Syrian
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“Holiness is not simply righteousness, for which the righteous merit the enjoyment of Blessedness in the Kingdom of God, but rather such a height of righteousness that men are filled with the Grace of God to the extent that it flows from them upon those who associate with them. Great is their Blessedness; it proceeds from personal experience of the Glory of God. Being filled also with love for men, which proceeds from Love of God, they are responsive to men’s needs, and upon their supplication they appear also as intercessors and defenders for them before God.”
Saint John Maximovitch
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“Before approaching an Elder or Priest for advice, Pray that God will give them the wisdom to advise you well.”
Saint Matrona of Moscow, the Blind
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“My heart only has entrances. It doesn’t have exits. Whoever enters remains there. Whatever he may do, I love him the same as I loved him when he first entered into my heart. I Pray for him and seek his Salvation.”
Elder Epiphanios of Athens
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Concerning Prayer, the Elder said to one of his Spiritual sons: “I will light your lamp, but you must take care of the wick yourself.”
Saint Nektary of Optina
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“A Saint’s word opens the hearer’s nous, and with this word he can preach a whole sermon.”
Saint Sophrony of Essex
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“Orthodox Priests share in Christ’s self-emptying, in the Martyric Priesthood of Christ, Who was Crucified and went down to Hades.”
Saint Sophrony of Essex
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“Don’t pass these things I tell you on to other people – my words are the appropriate medicine for you, for your particular situation, The same words spoken to someone else, though externally he may seem to have the same symptoms as you, won’t produce the same beneficial results.”
Saint Porphyrios of Kavsokalyvia
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“I will sacrifice myself in order to save the Canons of the Church, but in the case of saving one person, I will sacrifice all the Canons.”
Saint Justin Popovich of Serbia
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“I remain with you day and night, I hold you in my arms and I suffer for you. I am watching over you and Pray, weeping for you, my children.”
Elder Joseph of Vatopedi
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“Faith, devoutness, self denial and respect for the Elder. The more you have the more you get.”
Elder Joseph of Vatopedi
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“Do not be scared. You will not be lost. The Grace of our Jesus will not abandon us neither will the Prayers of our Fathers and our Elders.”
Elder Joseph of Vatopedi
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“Blessed is he, who did not permit his faith to diminish towards his Elder.”
Elder Joseph of Vatopedi